April 29..So it's Breast Cancer!.?.?.?

April 29 is a day Di & I will never forget. What we thought, and the doctors thought, was probably a calcium deposit turned out to be Breast Cancer. That was a sobering call. The next few days were pretty hard on her...and me...and her mom....dad...my mom, sisters, brothers....you get the point. She is loved by many and no one wants this thrust upon someone they love. No one.
Stage 3, spread to the Lymph Nodes, left breast. Stage 0 non invasive right breast, has not spread. Double mastectomy it is. Followed by chemo, then radiation. Then chemo pills. We're told.
Surgery is June 15. Followed by a month of recovery, then off to chemo once a month..or so for about 6 months.
June 1, we went to our fertility doctor to "Harvest Eggs". We were able to freeze 3 fertilised eggs that we hope we can turn into kids when this is all over...whenever that may be. If anyone wants to know about "The Room" I had the pleasure of visiting to "give" my "deposit" you will have to get me liquored up first.

There is no doubt in my mind that Di will beat this. She is young, mentally & physically strong, and has the support of many. All which will be key in her recovery.

I will do my best to update this blog as often as time allows so that all of you can follow her on her road to recovery. I thank all of you who have allready called, written, sent cards and sent there prayers our way. It is important that Di feels our love. Some days will be better then others. So remember, the day your card, or whatever, gets to her may be the day it is needed most! Don't hesitate to get in touch with me if there is something you want. We will do our best to keep our life as normal as possible..when possible. With our family and friends we will soon look back at this as the year we beat cancer...as a family...as friends.